What kind of person are you drawn to?

How to answerHere are some everyday moments. Pick the option that makes your heart flutter most, or that's closest to what you'd hope for. Go with your gut.

1. 1At a get-together with friends, who's most likely to catch your eye?

   The one who has the whole table laughing the second they speakThe one who finishes your sentence before you doThe one quietly topping up drinks and making sure everyone's OKThe one just back from far away with stories from the roadThe one whose eyes light up when they talk about what they're good at
2. 2Your ideal weekend date is…

   Going to a show or exhibition they're part ofWandering a market together, then cooking a slow dinner at homeHopping on whatever train leaves first, destination unknownAn escape room or board games, laughing till it hurtsCurled up reading separate books, glancing up to smile now and then
3. 3Which message would warm your heart the most?

   "Just saw something and you were the first person I thought of""Let's go to the beach tomorrow. I've booked the tickets"A meme they made of you, with a caption that cracks you up"Just finished writing a song and I want you to hear it first""Home yet? Text me when you get in"
4. 4When you're going through something hard, you'd most like the person next to you to…

   Skip the speeches and help you sort things out one step at a timeCome up with a brilliant idea you'd never have thought ofKnow what you need without you having to explainDrag you outside for a change of scene: "Come on, let's get some air"Find a way to make you laugh so you can breathe again
5. 5What moment makes you think "OK, this person is something"?

   They tell you, in earnest, about the faraway places they want to goThey can make even the dullest story sound hilariousYou watch them focus on something and they're practically glowingThey keep every promise to you, however smallYou both say the exact same thing at the exact same moment
6. 6Scrolling through someone's profile, what draws you in most?

   A portfolio of drawings, photos or code that clearly took real carePlaylists and reading lists that overlap with yours by more than halfLots of places visited, and they're always on the move in photosA steady routine, and balcony plants they've kept alive for yearsCaptions that make you laugh out loud every single time
7. 7After a squabble, you'd most like them to…

   Offer a silly little peace offering to break the tensionTake a moment to cool off, then sit down and really talk it throughNo words needed. One look and you both know it's time to make upApologise in their own way, like a little doodle just for youGive you both some space to go for a walk, then come back
8. 8The most romantic thing someone could say is…

   "You don't have to say it. I get it""I made this, and I wanted you to see it first""I'm here. Don't be scared""With you, even queueing is fun""Where do you want to go? I'll come with you"
9. 9On a trip together, what you'd most love in a travel buddy is…

   Happy to change plans and find spots only locals know aboutHas the itinerary, passports and power bank all sortedCan turn getting lost into a story you'll laugh about for yearsMoves at just your pace, resting when you rest and eating when you're hungryCan tell you the story behind every old building you pass
10. 10Years from now, looking back on the relationship, you'd love it to feel…

    Safe, like you were always caught when you fellWide open, full of all the places you saw togetherLucky, because you found someone who truly got youFun, with far more laughter than tearsProud, because you helped each other grow into better people